I'd Pick More Daisies

I picked up the following piece in a shop a few years ago. Copied onto a plain piece of paper, there were a pile of them for people to pick up. No author's name was given but a little internet research has revealed it to be Nadine Stair, aged 85. I have referred to it many times as it talks of living moment by moment, appreciating the simple things and letting go of the need to strive.

I'd Pick More Daisies

If I had my life to live over, I'd try to make more mistakes next time. I would relax. I would limber up. I would be sillier than I have been this trip. I know of very few things I would take seriously. I would be less hygienic. I would take more chances. I would make more trips. I would climb more mountains, swim more rivers and watch more sunsets. I would eat more ice cream and less beans. I would have more actual troubles and fewer imaginary ones. You see, I am one of those people who live prophylactically and sanely and sensibly, hour after hour, day after day. Oh, I have had my moments and, if I had to do it over again, I'd have more of them. In fact, I'd try to have nothing else. Just moments, one after another, instead of living so many years ahead each day. I have been one of these people who never go anywhere without a thermometer, a hot water bottle, a gargle, a raincoat and a parachute. If I had to do it over again, I would go places and do things and travel lighter than I have.

If I had to live my life over, I would start barefooted earlier in the spring and stay that way later in the fall. I would play hooky more. I wouldn't make such good grades, except by accident. I would ride more merry-go-rounds. I'd pick more daisies.

By Nadine Stair

We have the chance NOW to opt for a simpler life, a life of joy, appreciation and ease. Just for today, try to relax and let go, be easy on yourself, do what feels good and maybe pick some daisies. 

 

Comments

[Niki Duffy]

What a wonderful piece by Nadine Sair. Thank you for sharing it with us. It reminds me of a suggestion from one of Tony Robbins courses to keep a "Magic Moments" diary - keeping short notes of memorable moments throughout the day / week whether it's the radiance of a baby's smile, or a warming conversation.

I'm going to dig mine out and start celebrating each moment.....then I might just go and find a few daisies to pick ;)

[Dawn Dowsett]

Thank you for your comment Nikki. I love the idea of the "Magic Moments" diary.
Dawn